RealPlayer privacy issues

Occasionally I need to help out a friend with their computer, then I notice what "Real Spyware Player" is doing, pre-loading its self and using up system resources.. presenting its browser and ads when it first opens, and even going online when the computer starts without permission (causing ADSL modem to dial!)

Check out this screen shot of it causing the ADSL dial:
I don't think it should ever have been coded to work like this. It even does this in the BBC custom version which is supposed to not include all their adverts and calling home functionality. Another reason to not use RealPlayer any more.